10 mistakes in the development of relations
Here are the 10 main reasons why men fail to women, and my attempt to tell you how to avoid these dangerous mistakes.
Mistake 1 Not too need to overact in the "good guy"
I think you had already seen, which is really beautiful women never attract sun "good guys"? Of course, noticed.
Similarly, as we have, you probably have nice friends who are interested in you, but, in fact, is not configured to you romantically. What does this mean? It is very simple.
The fact is that women do not base their choice on how "good" (Goethe, funny) guy. They choose the men, which comes from inner strength and power. To the question Why? already, and so too is written.
In general, playing "good guy" in front of a woman you will never compel her to feel tvoju inner strength. And if you will be "good" if you will assist and cooperate with a woman - it does not mean that it is a woman chooses you. Rather - on the contrary.
We understand that in this rassuzhdenii little logic, but, nevertheless, take this OBEKTIVNUYU HOW TO REALITY. As long as you do not adopt it as a fact, you never will have the success with women.
Mistake 2 pytajsja not persuade her to love you
What makes most of the guys, when they communicate with their highly attractive woman who meets its holodnostyu and indifference? Correct! They are trying to persuade the woman to treat them differently.
Well, we have news for you. YOU NEVER ZASTAVISH ZHENSCHINU POSCHITAT PRIVLEKATELNYM YOU WHEN IT'S NOT THAT POCHUVSTVUET SAMA.
Never, never, NEVER BEFORE! Think about it.
If a woman does not feel you inside of what it needs, how are you going to change her opinion of you? There's no need to convince her, it is not vozmesh neither logic nor reasoning. However, for certain reasons that we all cases. Because we are men, and we think in a more straightforward manner.
When women are not interested in us, we begin to ask, to beg, to prosecute, and doing everything possible to make it to reconsider. This - a bad way. You do not have to use them, because he would not work ever.
Mistake 3 is not look at it, looking for support or endorsement
In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly take for a way to earn their love), we, the guys are always doing things for which try to obtain "approval" or "permission" women.
Another UZHASNY way.
Women are NEVER attracted those men who literally spread before them.
Not floodplain us wrong.
You should not treat women badly, but if you think that means a good attitude before each act obtain your approval or permission from it for further action, then you need to reconsider its position. You never preuspeesh, looking for the approval of their actions in the woman. In fact, these guys women simply to irritate. Doubt? Ask any beauty, familiar or unfamiliar.
Failed Attempt 4 "buy" its attachment fare and expensive gifts
How many times poluchalos so that you drove the woman to expensive restaurants, bought her gifts and flowers, but for some reason you BROSALA and left to someone who did not even half of what it did for you?
With us this also happened. I do not fold.
What's the point, you ask? Deeds women are reasonable and ESTESTVENNY. Yes, exactly, ESTESTVENNY.
In doing so, as you would send her a message: "I do not think that it is you love me, me, such as I am, so I will try to BUY your attention and affection".
Your good intentions at first glance to perceive women as a protective reaction to tvoju unreliability and thirst attention, and as a pathetic attempt to manipulate them.
Error 5 too early to try to show you how your attitude towards it
Another provalnaya huge mistake that most men commit with women is that the first is too slow to show women how they liked them.
Rarely found attractive woman. But women get this type of a great deal of attention from men.
Most men do not understand this, do not realize that the attractive woman several times a day are subjected to the attention of the men. The day it suited meet several males, in the week of their being recruited several dozen, but for a month - hundreds. So women often designate visits. And they have experience, they know what to expect. There is one sure way to lower its interest to you and your expedite of parting.
This is a woman sends a message that you - one of those guys who, without a mind of her and could not contain their feelings, could not control himself.
Do not do this. Better otkinsya back and relax. There is a much better way ...
Error 6 attractiveness in the understanding of women - some not what people think about it man
Women are VERY different from men in matters of sexual distinction and attraction. You must accept this de facto and always keep this in mind.
When a man sees a beautiful, a young, sexual woman, he feels sexual attraction IMMEDIATELY.
But what happens in such cases among women?
A woman feels sexual attraction to men based mostly on what she sees? Or something else has it impact?
Our long experience of studying mezhpolovyh relations allows us to say with certainty: the women have their own "attraction mechanisms" caused by some other incentives, in addition to the visual. Women are more attracted some internal quality in men, they are more likely to turn our eyes inward their feelings in a particular society by men. And if these feelings pleasant and relaxed, the man likes a woman.
If you skillfully own body language, you compel ANY woman feel the same powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel and when you see the seductive, sexual, young woman.
This is not a chaotic event, it can be managed. You must NAMETIT plan their development in this way. And we can assure you that any guy can learn it ...
7 Error Not believe that the woman is interested only in your appearance and money
One of the most common mistakes that guys are doing, is that they surrender before the time when they have not even begun to fight. All this is happening because of the fact that they think that beautiful women are interested only those men who have the money and attractive appearance ... or those that have achieved some heights in life ... or, for example, a certain age men.
I am sure there are, of course, and such women, but, fortunately, a minority. MOST women are much more interested in the identity of men, but not his wallet or his appearance. There are individual character traits men that women are attracted like a magnet ...
And if you examine what are these features and how to use them to enjoy themselves, you can accomplish much in relations with women.
You should not "opt out" of women just because you are still limited, low, or ugly.
We once again reiterate: If you will skillfully own body language, you compel ANY woman feel the same powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel and when you see the seductive, sexual, young woman.
Error 8 is not to give all the energy of women tvoju
Previously, we have seen the error in paragraph 3: "You do not have to constantly look to women seeking their support and encouragement." This error - synthesis of a few mistakes 3.
Another similar tactic used by most guys, is that they OTDAYUT ALL ITS ENERGY women.
In other words, the guys try to win the love of women doing all that it may ask. And, in excess quantities.
Another bad idea ...
Women never attracted men who go to them for about ... Women do not attract TRYAPKI!
Error 9 You do not know exactly how to proceed in any given situation with the women
Now we are going to challenge some assumptions ...
In fact, that the woman always knows what you think. Women are about ten times better than the men read body language.
I know this is hard to believe. But, for example, you are on the date with a woman and want to kiss her - SHE KNOWS ABOUT IT. And if you do not exactly know what to do and how to kiss her, but just sit, you look at it and endured, it will not help you! Do not even try!
I will be so in all situations. Do you Berti her phone number, whether you spent it, whether priglashaesh to her home, she will almost never help you ... In any situation, you have to act alone and should certainly know how to act. If you do not know what to do, you are guaranteed to all sdelaesh wrong and finding threatened LOSE EVERYTHING.
I KNOW you know.
Dooler important that you know EXACTLY proschityval and every step with a woman, known as a step-by-step ... from the very first meeting, bring it to the bedroom, did not make any fatal mistakes.
Error 10 reluctance to receive assistance from it
This - the biggest mistake of all the above.
This is - an error which prevents the majority of men even count on the success of women who really like them.
I know guys do not like to appear weak or helpless. We do not love to ask for help.
A guy, but we were in such a situation! Every man instinctively feels his desire never to speak of women the words "do not know", "fear", "sure", etc., each man is ready to put a lot not to lose what any woman in sports or gambling game, and Finally, almost all men do not want and do not know how to get attention and gifts from women. But this often hurt them.
Reading the body language men, a woman finds that he закомплексован, that he was willing to build around themselves what else protective barriers, not only to show their "weak", its "dependence" of the women, their ability to love and feel .
Such a man becomes closed, nervous and irritable. Woman sees all this, and such behavior does not like it. Internally, it realized that only by the present strong man will not be shy to those who he really is. He does not need to defend itself and hide its essence - he believes in himself, as if he tells a woman: "I am honest with you. I want you taken of the person who is inside me. If you can not do this, then I was wrong to you, and we have different ground. "
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